This is such a great article! I had never heard of the term "Schrodinger's Patriarchy" before this. I have heard of "Incels," and they appear to be in the same vein. The thing that I find the most laughable about these "men" is that they wonder why women don't want to be with them? They cannot fathom that a woman would want to date a nice, hard-working, maybe less-attractive man over them?! Well, because he pulls his fucking weight and looks at her as an equal. I thank the Gods everyday I found a man that is not only very handsome, but worships the ground I walk on (and me in return), supports both of our dreams, is supportive of my career and has his own, and his a kick-ass dad to our kids. No woman should ever settle for less than that! Marriage is truly a partnership these days. It has to be, there is no other way.